Okay, what is skilled when talking about "gettin' some"? What floats ya boat? Likkit before stikkit? Minimum orgasm count? Time? Position variation? Poetry, rose petals and a can of whipped cream? Somebody who can find the G-spot? Somebody who can make a wet spot? Someone who work so hard to get you off that their heels will sweat from the effort?
What kind of stuff makes you wanna consider unprotected sex or not mind that the rubber breaks and have you saying to yourself, "Worst case is that I have the inside track on this for another 18 years!"
What does it for you?
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Usually what does it for me is knowing that I am desired and that my efforts will be much appreciated. That and being on the bottom so I can watch occasionally.
There is nothing that makes me "wanna consider unprotected sex or not mind if the rubber breaks"...nothing except a wedding ring and I have never been to the point where I really wanted to get married (long story for another post), sooooooo that's that.
The IT factor for me is not one thing really. It depends on a lot of things...like how much wine I've had...how long it's been since the last time...is it curved to the left or the right...will he let me blindfold and handcuff him...ha...I'm kidding kidding kidding.
I'm a moody female...what does it for me...constantly changes...so I'm not easily pleased.
I won't be having Unprotected sex with the uprising of DL men out here...so hell to the damn NO....
StD and AIDS are still rampant and forever gonna be so Yaz don't do shit without a hat
ok. I am celibate. I have been for four years. I have to have mental orgasm first. Not just poetry but, I need to feel an intimate connection with his soul. I have never been one for casual sex.. I dont know why it just never done it for me. Now, I dont know about going with out protection. I need to be married and even then, we got to be ready for children. the women folk are fertile in my fam.
lmao@hell to the damn no...I know that's right Yaz.
Deep...I feel you on needing that connection. Wow @ 4 years though...wait till Navy gets a hold of you!!!
Pleasuuuuure
Considering the spirit of the question, Y'ALL SOME DAMN BALLBREAKERS!!!! Just kidding...
Dang Diva! That wedding ring thing sounds kinda mercenary!
But seriously, do you at least let a bruh know what will please you at a given time? Because we men DO NOT read minds and are not usually a lot better at reading signals. And if you find a man that is then check ya left hand for sparkly jewelry cuz you probably already married him!
For that matter, are you often pleased?
LOL @ Yaz for the mental picture of her gettin bizzy wearing a catcher's uniform and a glad bag!!! Or when feeling sexy, in a Hazmat suit.
Contagions aside, what might make Yazmar just let someone do whatever they want to her?
Deep, I feel ya on the fertile fam. It goes for the menfolk as well as the womenfolk. We have a Family Picnic every year and there is ALWAYS someone being carried, someone just learning that walking thing and a grip of short folk with far too much energy with strong inclinations for sugared drinks.
Celibate? I cannot imagine such a thing!!!! 4 years? Wow. You gonna need training wheels when you get started back up? I have to disagree with Diva slightly. Wait until you get a hold of Navy! Woo! He may need combat pay! I was supposed to head to ATL late July, I am not so sure now, might be dangerous. Too much potential sexual collateral damage!
That connection thing is definitely important. I guess I left that part out myself. But after that connection thing is happening, the above answer still applies!
Dang 'nefty, one, two, three, four, FIVE U's? I don't know if I am afraid or aroused! But I like ya style!
I tease, but I dig where you all are coming from.
The funny thing is, I know I can be a beast, so you are right. Who ever it may be, they gone need their Wheaties, ginseng, vitamins, Gatorade, all that.lol.
I have a brother that has ten kids. So when ever I think about wanting to get it, I think of him. lol.
@ 68...kinda hard to answer without giving TMM
LMAO @ Deep...o kay kay kay!!
smh @ ten kids...damn. We have a lotta fertile myrtles in my family too, but ten kids...damn that's a lot!!
TMM was about you feeling all warm and fuzzy in the other post(you know I got a dirty mind). TMM = Too Much Material for you to leave out there without expecting me to make some kinda crack on it.
Now TMI is a whole different story. You can't do TMI on this subject.
And to restate Diva's oh so eloquent words "LMAO @ Deep...o kay kay kay!!"
A brother with 10 kids will give anyone pause, maybe even stop. Hell just thinking about ANY 10 kids is enough to give anyone pause!
Laffin' at the mental image of Navy being shell shocked having combat flashbacks while deep rides him with training wheels on while looking at her shiny new wedding ring!!!!
clitoral stimulation.
See now Urban, that is the very kind of answer that could get me into trouble. I consider that an easy way to make a woman smile all day. Glad you are in Maryland... Wait... You are closer that I think! Guess I betta watch my step until you head back east huh?
If you tell it there is no fun in the discovery. I dont want to have to tell a dude what to do. He just need to come wit it.
I've had some sweat a perm out suga this year but not "burpin out crumbsnatchers" suga.
*raising an eyebrow* @ J
"burpin out crumbsnatchers"...woooooooooow.
Hmmmm...I have no idea what you mean...but it definitely has me wondering.
And I'm with you on telling dudes what to do...wtf! Ok...some things you DO have to say...plus it's just fun to talk dirty - teehee...but not every damn thing...sheesh!
@ J: "If you tell it there is no fun in the discovery". Need I remind you that such statements are dangerous around freaky muhfuggas like myself? Like a challenge to the abilities or something. Not wise to do that unless you are TRULY prepared to be assaulted with a friendly weapon!
But I do agree about not giving detailed instructions. That is too much. A little prompt now and then that gets you to saying "Oh, you like it like THAT huh?" is cool.
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